Tuesday, June 2, 2009

I'm making myself out to be....

...my neighbor's very worse enemy BESTEST best friend....

I've had issues a great relationship with the white trash neighbors right next door.

The old man has flipped me off waved at me nearly everyday since we moved in, in April of 2008...there was a brief time in which he has ceased from doing so, but he's since started it back up.

Their yard looks like an overgrown, abandoned salvage yard very well maintained & manicured. And you can definitely tell that there are 4 non-working lazy adults & lazy teenager hard working folks living there.

The 4 year old is allowed to play in grass above her head, by herself, in snake infested areas very closely supervised. We live on the highway (only road to the house here) where the speed limit is whatever the idiots decide to drive at 65mph and the girl is so well supervised that it scares me to DEATH that she's going to be the next thing I see scraped off the road doesn't really bother me when she's playing out there alone.

GAAAAAAAAAH! Fuck it.

Anyways short story...

I had to call up the DA earlier today about the B&E the 16 year old performed a few months back where we "let him off" in exchange for yard work that has yet to be done more than half assed...grrr.... And he advised me to involve CPS just from what I told him in regards to some of the problems we've had. Also to not let any more "trespasses" just slide with a civil agreement. So I did call CPS, reported what I could honestly report on...gave her some of my assumptions, but did stress to her that I could not be completely positive on those matters. Supposedly a worker will be out to check out the living conditions sometime....

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Long...LONG Day

Got up this morning...8am...same routine every morning...head to the bathroom.

Go to flush the toilet and then the routine changes...

There is no water. Ugh.

Go out to the pump, it's been running all night, as I'd taken a shower before bed, obviously not long enough after watering my garden. The pump ended up with an air pocket in it. UGH! So I have to turn off the power to it, pour water down in it to help "pop" the air pocket & re-prime the pump. Three hours later I have water running in the house.

During this time I was in DESPERATE need of wanting to drink some coffee. I pour out the last few grains of coffee I have, pour in some water from my back-up supply, start the coffee. That was at around 9 this morning...it's 11pm and I still haven't gotten to drink a drop of that coffee.

Today was also laundry day. Fought with Mikeal for 3 hours to help me with getting the laundry gathered, as I have to take it over to my mom's due to well pump issues.... FINALLY get the car loaded, the kids loaded, and head out to my mom's...now just past noon...

Get to my mom's and find out that my 10 month old mower that I loan to them, roughly every weekend, no longer works. SOB! I unload my laundry, get it started, mess with the mower for a bit. Yeap, the carburetor on it isn't staying open to keep gas up in the engine. It's under warranty so no big deal, I'll just take it back and get a new new one....Also, the new inner tube I got for Mikeal's bike is the wrong size...okay, again, no big deal, I have the receipt still, JIC, I can exchange it....

Get the mower loaded, by now the kids are soaked from playing in the sprinkler almost as soon as we got to my mom's, so they're going to stay with Grandma...she's also going to switch out my laundry for me while I'm gone.

I run out to the house, pick up the warranty receipt on the mower, see that my weeping cherry tress have finally came in! WOOT! Deliver Grandma Pennye's tree that came with mine to her place, make a deal that if I run into problems returning the mower at Lowes that I can borrow one of their spare mowers.

FINALLY get headed towards Lowes, roughly a 30 minute drive (by this time I've already been gone over an hour, and I get a bit antsy when I leave my kids with my mom when I should be back quickly).

My front passenger side tire starts going thump thump thump. FREAKIN FLAT! I pull into the first mechanic place I come across, hoping they can fix my tire. Sure, not a problem. $15 is what he asks to put a plug & patch in it, there's a screw in it. Lovely. I have $14 on me. So I ask the dude if he wouldn't mind if I go down the road to OReilly's, where my husband works, and get the rest of the cash, as I was a bit short. He asks me who my husband is...I tell him, Brian, he waves his hand at me and tells me not to worry about it, he won't charge me for it. Yay!

I get to Lowes. My mower is approved to be warrantied out, so they give me my cash back on it that I'd paid for it...I go back to the mower section. Wouldn't ya know, the new mower, exact same model, is now $10 more this year than it was last year...plus I'd have to buy a new warranty if I want the new mower covered... Bringing my new total $25 more than what I'd gotten back, plus tax. Remember, I have a whole $14 on me..which is what I keep on me, JIC I have to get diapers before payday.

I go over to O'Reilly's and talk to Brian about it (he's practically across the street & down a few blocks)... its decided that we're going to wait for another paycheck or two and go with an "upgrade" model, since I have access to one I can borrow.

Ok, fine. I now have $160+ in my pocket...WOOT!...

Get headed back to town. Grab a bite to eat, as it's 4pm, and I still have yet to eat today.

Get over to Grandma Pennye's, borrow the mower, head to Wal-Mart, exchange the inner tube, get headed back to my mom's...

Its 5pm....I have been gone over 3 hours just to exchange the mower, and did not have a new mower.

There are a ton of guys over at my mom's place, friends & family of my step-dad's, all hanging out, drinking, the works...no big deal, except they get LOUD. OH well, at least they're all outside.

The kids are back out in the sprinkler, Mikeal's riding his bike everywhere; Mikaila is constantly having to be brought back down off the hill & driveway that, but they had a blast.

Then Mikaila started playing in the mud, no big deal, God created my kids washable, so mud isn't a big deal. She then decided that I also needed to be muddy with her, so she kept grabbing handfuls of it to smear on my legs. LOL Silly Girl. She was so proud of herself too! ...A few YouTube videos of it are in the sidebar --->>>>

After dark things settled down, the "extra" guys all went home, I finished laundry, fed dinner to the kids, Brian got there, we loaded up the car, and I came home... Only to have both kids catch their second wind about the time we hit the highway on the way home...at 10:30 pm...Mikeal went to bed finally just before 11. It's almost 1am and Mikaila had been doing nothing but screaming while in her crib instead of going to sleep. Since getting her back up, again, she's brought me her sandals and a change of her clothes...I'm taking it that she's wanting to go somewhere... OY!

The real kicker is that Brian then informs me that he could of "simply" fixed the mower...grrr...

Wait...Mikaila just sat down on the couch, with her blanket...

Ahhhh...peace...two minutes later she is now snoring. I knew that if she'd only stop for 30 seconds she'd be out, and she was.

Now I'm off to bed....G'Night, I'm hoping tomorrow goes better than today.... My plans include going through a lot of totes, closets, & dressers to get rid of stuff, long day planned, but at least the kids have a small shallow pool here now so they *should* be more inclined to spend time outside.

Friday, May 29, 2009

OH NO!

What do I do?

Mikeal got a bumper sticker for my car...the kind that states "Proud Parent of an Honor Student"....Now, where I'm UTTERLY proud of him and his hard work this year, and have no real issue with sharing this news with everyone... But to put that on my car... :blink: I'm not really all that "enthusiastic" about it. He is.

It was bad enough when I had to admit to myself I had a first grader...now I'm going to have a sticker on the car window showing the world I have an honor student... Then in a few months I'll have to suck up the fact I have a second grader.... the following year I'll have Mikaila starting preschool. And then I'll be 30 thud

Re: LugNut's pregnancy

I think we're FINALLY getting a little bit of definite action in the puppy department...

- She's been clingy most of the day.
- She's barely ate anything for a day or two (common with dogs at what I'm going to assume "this stage")
- Her belly has almost TRIPLED from where it was just a week ago...still not more than a large orange in size, but definitely can see belly
- Her "milk jugs" are HUGE
- She has insisted on being at my side WAY more than normal...I had to leave earlier because Mikeal broke the flip flops he wore to school, at school, and after I'd buckled Mikaila in the car & went back to get her sippy cup I dropped in the floor, LugNut was waiting in the car, curled up in the driver's seat, not wanting to stay home alone. ...She's NEVER gotten in the car on her own

That's all the "not normal" bits I've picked up on lately.

Many prayers that this "false pregnancy" absolves itself by producing puppies....SOON....

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Just Sucks

I don't know what or why, but that's just my current frame of mind. And I can't think of a single reason why I'm feeling this way.

A lot of things have gone very well today, or at least not wrong. :huh: We signed the new lease (that we should of signed back around the first of April :giggle: ) And she reduced our rent we have to pay, and instead of having to come up with the whole chunk she's going to leave it up to our choice to split it into two payments or make a whole payment each month, so long as we make the payments. We also discussed redoing some of the plumbing & electrical that is in need of being done and filing for a weatherization grant that will pay for new windows, doors, insulation, & maybe even a new roof. ...the roof leaks in two spots and to look at it from outside it sags in a few places, I just noticed a few days ago. :? Maybe something to do with the 23 consecutive days of rain we had with a few day break before starting back up again ...but anyways good news there

I also got a brand new Swiffer Vac for FREE today...it's my new love!!!

I stopped at a yard sale type thing (the people running it own a consignment shop)...and they were having their dollar dayz sale. I picked up three nice skirts, a few nice dress pants, and a few nice shirts for myself & a 3 piece suit for Brian (turns out the jacket is a smidge too small) but ALL of it plus some canning jars, for $4.72. I think I got three shirts, four skirts, and two or three pants for me.

The interior of my car was detailed out for me today...not sure if he did the windows, but I just asked him to take it down to be vacuumed out, I was tired of nasty french fries in the back seat.

I just hate having this feeling like something is wrong or is getting ready to be wrong or not right or something.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Potty Training Boot Camp pt 8 Day 2

I've had it!

Yesterday was a great day...only a handful of accidents...Today has resulted in nothing but cleaning my floor...over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over.... GAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!

She's WAY overtired, woke up WAY too early this morning and she's just too much of a grouch today...

Potty Training Boot Camp pt 7 Day 2

Found out the reason for all the EXCESSIVE peeing... Brian left a 32oz cup of VERY watered down soda where she could find it by his side of the bed...